A soft approach to ‘home schooling’As we approached the end of lockdown, I breathed a sigh of relief at having successfully navigated juggling work and client commitments with the increasing demands of my children age six and nine. My day job is to lead RBC Wealth Management International’s relationship management efforts in the British Isles, but my toughest challenge during lockdown was educating and entertaining my new junior co-workers each day. While my children’s school did a great job at setting up daily tasks and learning activities, there is only so much ?teaching” they can take from me without World War III breaking out. So instead of rigidly sticking to the school curriculum each day, I took the opportunity to educate my young children about a topic that is often not discussed enough in school money.
Why now?What I do for a living has become a central discussion in our co-working space also known as the dining table. I have found that investment concepts can be grasped quite well by young children and this has led to some interesting conversations about which businesses are doing well in the current situation, and those that are not. Children are often more logical than adults, and in my house, this logic is helping them grasp the basics of an investment philosophy. As a result, I have even passed conversations around stock markets off as maths classes!
For young children like my own, helping them learn the basics of managing money is something that will hopefully set them up well in life.There are some great tools to help them do this we use GoHenry, which provides children with a pre-paid card to learn about budgeting. Likewise, encouraging conversations around how they spend virtual money whilst gaming on apps like Roblox can give some really important lessons around how you look after the money you have earned and how if something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is. The most important thing is not to underestimate your children. Whether it is the application of a ?mummy-tax” when they want chocolate or applying interest rates (albeit nominal!) if they want to borrow money, teaching our children the basics around money is something we can all do.
Incorporating new lessonsThe first step is to identify the best way to approach teaching these topics in a way they will understand. Resources such as the Usborne Money for Beginners are really helpful to start conversations. There are also several YouTube clips and even TikTok channels dedicated to helping children think about money. I tend to think about what is important to them and use that as a catalyst to start conversations; for example, it could be how they can monetise their love of the gaming app Roblox.
Ending the tabooAny conversation that leads to a greater awareness around financial discipline and security has to be a positive, no matter what the age – and there are certainly parallels with my experience and that of my clients. There seems to have been a shift in HNW and UHNW families” willingness to talk about money. Whereas previously it was seen as very un-British to speak about money, the pandemic has meant that a more open conversation is taking place.
Whatever our financial position, we often bury our heads in the sand when it comes to money, and don’t always have a clear financial plan, but when we start to put down on paper what’s going in and out, we immediately start to feel more in control, thus becoming more engaged.It can be uncomfortable to have that conversation with your family, but we regularly speak with our clients about all manner of sensitive subjects including putting wills in place, inheritance and protecting loved ones. Naturally, this is also bringing conversations to the fore around succession planning, legacy, philanthropy and even one’s own mortality. When times are good, it’s easy to not have these thoughts at the forefront of your mind, but in challenging times like these, it highlights how essential it is to talk. And just as with my children, there are plenty of apps and websites that can help you take the first steps.
Varying generational approachesThere is no one way to educate your children about money what worked for one generation will not necessarily work for the next. Different generations have had to address the different approaches they might take in thinking about money and try to reach a common language to agree on common goals. Whilst many of us grew up with physical pocket money from our parents after completing household chores, today’s young children rarely even touch money, they receive their allowance on an app. A 2019 study commissioned by RBC Wealth Management and conducted by The Economist Intelligence Unit found that seven in ten younger affluent respondents think that their beliefs about wealth are very different to those of their parents; with a similar percentage, 78%, believing that wealth is less easily attained or preserved today. Early, open and continuous dialogue can only help confront obstacles head on and smooth the path ahead. These talks also allow HNW individuals and their families to talk about how they can address their non-financial goals, such as fighting climate change or supporting social agendas something that the younger generation is acutely focussed on. Indeed, more recent social events have led to an ongoing and overdue debate around what privilege looks like and how society needs to change.
What next?During the summer holidays, the struggle to keep children occupied will continue, but without the pressure of the school curriculum. This is an opportunity to continue discussions with children about where money comes from and where its value lies. I have found it tremendously empowering to talk to my children about money and getting back to basics it may not be school learning, but it is real life learning. And as I say to my clients, the initial step to start a conversation is always the hardest. Annabel Bosman is the managing director and head of relationship management at RBC Wealth Management.
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